Is it okay to give a dildo as a gift?

Surprising gift?

Surprising gift?

Initially, you may think that giving someone a sex toy for a gift is rude and offensive. It probably is, by the way, as not everyone is open-minded enough to even talk about sex, masturbation, and the like as the topic of a conversation.

However, a dildo may be the perfect gift you can give to someone because it is actually something that a lot of people only wish for, but don’t have the guts to buy themselves. Maybe once the initial awkwardness fades, you can receive a well-expressed “thank you” from your friend.

Before pushing through with this odd idea for a gift, consider these following tips:

1. Don’t give it as a surprise.

It may turn out pretty bad if you use a dildo as a surprise gift. Remember that not everyone has enough sense of humor to handle this. If at all possible, talk first with your target recipient if she is okay with receiving a dildo for her next birthday. Better yet, let her accompany you to the shop so she herself could pick the right one for her. Your beneficiary may not be the only one surprised when she opens the gift, as she could do it unknowingly in front of relatives and children.

2. Be respectful.

Another benefit of not giving it as a surprise is you are definitely showing respect to your recipient. Some people may be greatly offended by this type of gift, not only because it is a sex toy, but because it implies self-inadequacy or incompetency in love-making that you think they actually have to use a device like it. If you can, do a little personal research on the beliefs and preferences of your recipient. Find out if she doesn’t have any of these devices, or if she already owns a few, or if she is open to the idea. If she has, how often does she use them? What are her preferences? You can do this objectively if you approach her politely. You can quickly tell if a person is not fine with the conversation, so back off as soon as you notice.

3. Buy high quality only.

In the event that she is okay with having a dildo as a gift, remember to only purchase a high-quality product. Make sure that it would not be detrimental to her health and that it would really give her enjoyment and satisfaction. Buy only phthalate-free products. You can research online on the best types of dildos that are safe to use and are perfect for beginners.

4. Don’t assume.

Not because you are giving her a dildo means that you will get to use it with her. Most likely is she will be using it on her own. Be casual and nonchalant about the whole process. Show her that it is a gift with no strings attached. However, be sensitive to her reactions as it may give you a hint of what your recipient may really want.

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